Here are my thoughts on acceptance, allowance and being at peace with things outside of our control.
Firstly let’s look at what we have control over in life; only ourself. This is our beliefs, values, standards, rules, attitudes, and behaviour which leads to be able to influence some of the circumstances in our ‘sphere of influence’.
Being able to control another person’s behaviour or decisions is an illusion. We can sometimes “influence” another’s decisions through either love or manipulation, however we ultimately have no real control over their choices. Actually, the more