Your comfort zone is your enemy. One of the biggest ironies is that when you try and stay comfortable, life will send you more and more discomfort. People are so concerned about staying comfortable rather than growing, and reaching higher, because people don’t want to address their limitations they keep struggling. You are here on earth to constantly grow and evolve into something more so that you can live the life you really want. If you don’t make yourself uncomfortable, life will do that for you automatically in the form
Here are my thoughts on acceptance, allowance and being at peace with things outside of our control.
Firstly let’s look at what we have control over in life; only ourself. This is our beliefs, values, standards, rules, attitudes, and behaviour which leads to be able to influence some of the circumstances in our ‘sphere of influence’.
Being able to control another person’s behaviour or decisions is an illusion. We can sometimes “influence” another’s decisions through either love or manipulation, however we ultimately have no real control over their choices. Actually, the more
We teach others how we want to be treated. Therefore we create our relationships based on what we tolerate. If we want better results in our relationships we have to start taking responsibility for the part we have played in creating the dynamics of our relationships. It’s not about blaming anyone, it’s about getting real with where things are at and actually giving a f*#k about our relationships. We need to put in the effort to develop our self-awareness, courage and compassion to do whatever it takes to upgrade our
Guys there is a science to achieving your goals. Here is a checklist I created that you can follow to achieve any goal!
How to achieve any goal!
Goal: What is the goal? Clearly defined and measureable in time, space and form.
Desire: What will the goal give you? Create a compelling vision, cultivate inspiration for what you want. Get clear on your “Why?”.
Obstacles: What are the obstacles in the way of achieving your goal?
Learning: Get Educated (by either a mentor, expert or coach) on the strategy and steps you don’t know about